every time the train stops, nor every time there is any other excitement–it is not an evidence of refinement.

nor ask the brakeman to ventilate the car, as long as you have your coat or cloak on.  Women are very selfish and unkind in this respect, and many are the remarks made about their disregard for the comfort of others.  A severe reprimand occasionally would not be out of place.

provided any other person will be discommoded by it.  A coach on a railroad is no more a public place than a room in a public house, and a thoughtful person would never think of opening a window there without the consent of other persons present.

turn your back to the aisle and look intently out of the window, when passengers are looking for seats–it is unkind and highly selfish.